Change Is Not a One Night Stand! Transformation Takes Time and Attention

One can then end up coming to the conclusion that they have a high sex drive and need to have plenty of sex in order to meet this need. But this could simply be a conditioned reflex and one that allows them to regulate their emotional pain.

Often we believe we are saying one thing while the listener is hearing something entirely different.  The listener is responding to their interpretation of what was said.  Communication requires both good transmission skills (articulation) and good receptive skills (listening).  Without both, communication will be, at best, difficult.

Is the “one night stand” at midlife the same thing it was when we were in our twenties? The answer might be YES for some who are very freshly out of a marriage or long-term relationship … but for most of us at midlife, I think the answer is NO. I believe the definition of the term “one night stand” changes with age – or at least it has for me. This article explains the “one night stand at midlife”, and highlights why this phenomenon sometimes occurs. I finish up with a list of some common characteristics that I have found in "one night stand" type of midlife relationships - so you may know what to watch for.

Her past often has a strong say in the question of how to give a female an orgasm. Psychological traumas, previous boyfriends/girlfriends/one-night stands/teenage experiences often play a significant role.

Another interesting statistic shows that the more money a husband has, or earns, the more likely he is to cheat on his wife. Having cash enables a man to travel, to join clubs, and to take time off from work. It also enables him to purchase gifts for other women, or pay for hotel rooms and travel when they want to get together.

If both partners keep their eyes open during the encounter, it ramps up the intimacy of the experience and creates a connection that is often missing from other sexual experiences. Keeping a soft light on, such as a lamp or several candles, gives the bedroom a romantic glow and allows for eye contact, which is very important to establishing intimacy. Furthermore, eye contact allows for easier communication of wants and needs, which is another tenet of Tantra.

3.Great caring is mandatory. Love is always given and received as a gift. It has been said that there is no such thing as bad sex, that sex without love can still be great sex, but sex with caring adds a warmth that connects two hearts and souls together. This is sex beyond technique. Sex with caring leaves the lovers filled. Sex with love leaves the lovers overflowing. It is caring that moves sex beyond the physical to allow for the creation of a deeper spiritual connection. Most men want an emotional connection and most would welcome a more spiritual experience of sex, but they are afraid and they just haven’t learned how to do it yet. Most women quite frankly, require the emotional connection as the price of entry.